Lookin' Back

Traveling out here in the ol' US of A is magnificent.  This spring we were in Las Vegas and had a blast.  As we traveled west our surroundings became more and more other worldly. The landscape morphed into rock; rock mountains and canyons that exuded their own type of beauty as far as the eye could see.  When we first arrived we made a beeline for our friends house in Henderson and stayed a couple of days with them.  We were only going to spend the night in their very lovely home and find a place to stay the next morning but unfortunately Vic came down with a nasty flu bug and we stayed on for another couple nights until he felt human enough to move us to Arizona Charlie's RV park and casino.  The next day I got the flu and was out of commission for several days.  Thank goodness Bob and Mary escaped the bug.  By the next weekend we were ready for some Casino fun. We all played the slots and ate well. I had the best time cutting up and laughing with our friends back at their place. I am so grateful for friends like Bob and Mary.  Not only did they put up with us being sick,  and our dogs eating their Cats' food, but our truck brakes needed repairs and Bob helped Vic for a whole day getting all that fixed. During that time Mary, bless her heart. tried to teach me how to crochet.   I did learn a few stitches and she sent me off with yarn and some crochet hooks to continue the hat I started.  Mary crochets hats and scarves for the homeless and I think she had about thirty sets finished for this coming winter.  She has a real talent, one I wish would have rubbed off on me.  I'll keep trying Mary.

I for one have always dreamed of going to  Lake Mead.  After we settled at Arizona Charlie's campground and casino we explored the area.  I was delighted to find  a paddle wheel boat tour of the lake near Boulder Dam.  We thoroughly enjoyed the ride between the rock mountains that surround the lake.  Enamored with the mountains and the subtle changes in color marked by eons of formation, we took scores of pictures.  We also visited Boulder Dam and climbed (in the truck) to the highest point.  Breathtaking.

For us it was a great place to visit and we have plans to return.  Vic had an opportunity to work in Vegas but we could not see ourselves living there. We are basically small town folk, not used to scores of homeless on the streets and razor wire on the walls to keep undesirables away from the downtown casinos.  Our dogs had a hard time adjusting their toilet to gravel, pebbles and little bits of grass they could find.  Alas, we said farewell to our good friends and headed back east in search of vegetation and smaller towns.

Boy Howdy

Well yes it has been too long since my last post.  To be honest living in Terrell, Texas was not my best moment.  Vic was driving truck gone weeks at a time and there really was nothing to say about that.
However, our trip to Las Vegas and back was a blast.  We left Terrell 2 weeks ago.  Our first leg of the trip west was to Canyon, Texas, a small town south of Amarillo.   Inundated with 30 mph head winds and rain the whole way, we expected more of the same when we entered Palo Dura canyon. As we pulled up to the park entrance however, the clouds parted, the sun warmed our faces and the wind died down.  We call these little moments God winks.  So as God winked we drove to the bottom of the canyon to camp and hike the trails in sunlight, fresh air and warm breezes. To say the canyon is beautiful is an understatement.  We are totally agreed that this is one of the top 10 places to see in the US.  Regretfully we could only stay the night since at the time Vic was due to take a job in Vegas and we had to move on.  The next morning as we prepared to leave, we were blessed with the sight of a rainbow over the rim of the canyon.  Naturally we took pictures and left with a smile in our hearts.
As I am writing this I plan to write about our experiences to Vegas, however, we are going to move from our current site tomorrow and because we are in the boondocks of Texas we probably will not have access to the internet.  So the next installment will be forthcoming but not until we find connectivity.

Laugh Out Loud

When I am alone in the camper trailer there are few instances when I actually laugh out loud, however this morning I found myself hysterically funny and had a good belly laugh. In the past when I would drag myself home from teaching all day physically and emotionally exhausted, I would fantasize about being in the middle of nowhere in a small dwelling with nothing to do.  This morning I caught myself complaining in my head about being in the middle of nowhere in this little RV with nothing to do. I remembered my fantasy and thus the giggle.
I have to admit that God has given me what I wanted. He seems to want my happiness and thus grants my small requests. But I worry about how God will use me. I attach circumstance, people or places to my worries of whether God will use me or not. So I worry when I think I may not be where I'm supposed to be. Worry, worry, worry.  Well here is what I read in Phillip Yancey's daily readings from Grace Notes this morning. "Wealth, poverty, comfort, suffering, acceptance, rejection, even death or life---none of these circumstances matter much to Paul.  Only one thing matters ultimately: the surpassing goal of exalting Christ, a goal that can be accomplished in any set of circumstances."  I am comforted and overjoyed. All I have to do is allow God to direct my life and trust He knows what to do with me. My job is to exault Christ no matter what.  Big smile.

Anniversary

Well 21 years of marriage seems like some kind of accomplishment. I married my best friend and we work hard to understand each other. We know our own short comings and forgive each other often. We enjoy being together and therefore must adjust when we have to be apart which, lately, has been  often. We are willing to compromise but also know when compromise may undermine the integrity of the other and therefore the relationship.We give each other space to pursue an idea or dream even if one of us does not agree. We allow each other to make mistakes. We encourage the artist within and celebrate creativity. We laugh and remind each other not to take the world so seriously. We harness our tongues when angry and talk things out when cooler heads prevail. Romance is the twinkle in his eye or a special smile. May be not perfection but it got us this far. 

Here's the Thing

Our travels have been side-lined for now with the need to earn a living. However, the surrounding area offers a large number of places to explore. Yesterday for example we traveled through Rockwall, Texas just to see the sights. Massive stone mansions crowded the outskirts. I stared in wonderment at the opulent  dwellings complete with rounded stone turrets.  Had I been transported into old England? 
 As we traveled into Rockwall proper we were surrounded by high-end shops and restaurants covering every square inch of ground for miles upon miles.  Lake Glen Hubbard shone beautifully in the midst of elegant hotels and structures we couldn't get close enough to for identification.  Granted we didn't take too much time to explore.  It was below freezing and the wind was wicked.  Come nicer weather I will be sure to check out more of Rockwall.
Just an aside - My mind wanders and wonders about the people in all sorts of dwellings I pass on the road. Today a I wondered. If I had the millions of dollars to build a huge stone mansion, would I?  Probably not.  It isn't  me to blatantly consume.  I would feel piggish.  I feel that way at times in my little RV when I think of all the people in the world that don't even have enough to eat for the day.  I am not here to judge, only to observe.  If I won the lottery say 150 million who's to say what I would do?  I would naturally spend it on myself; take care of the mortgage I'm upside down in, pay off the credit card and then give away a great portion to family and charities.  But all is moot.  I am in a great nation of power and wealth, the low man (or woman, in my case) on the totem pole. 

Alone

Well here I am alone for the first time in 21 years.  Filling the days hasn't been so hard, though.  Living in a camper always presents something to do, making sure I have enough propane to keep warm and to cook with.  Emptying the grey tank and black tank.  Keeping things organized so clutter does not become a problem.  Living on the road is also a challenge when it comes to banking but nothing major.  The Personal Banker has been very helpful and understanding.  Oh yeah, going to the laundry mat takes up a lot of time.  Here in Blue Bonnet Ridge RV Park there is quite a bit of land to roam around on.  The pond is large and is stocked with a variety of fish.  The dogs and I take lots of walks.  So far it has been windy and cold so we don't get out too much.  I still have a lot of exploring to do around this area and look forward to new adventures.

Silence is Golden but for How Long?

This long winter's nap is coming to an end. So once I again I am tapping the keys.  Living and traveling in an RV has been quite challenging. We found out that it is very expensive, more so than we planned  for, to retire and see the world.  We looked into the "work camper"  life and found that basically most work camp jobs are only for free lot fees and electricity or minimum wage which does not cover expenses when you still have a mortgage to pay.  We have been lucky so far to keep our heads above water, but to continue to do so Vic has gone back to work full time as a truck driver.  We have landed in Terrell, Texas which is 35 miles east of Dallas. 
Here at Blue Bonnet Ridge RV Park, I am enjoying warmer temperatures than encountered in Ohio and Kentucky in November, December and January.  This is a great little community and I feel safe and secure here.  The grounds are immaculate and the management is A number 1 in my book.  They have already helped me tremendously.  As soon as I get organized with banking, bills and the mundane, I may try to find a job as well.  When I retired it was only from the teaching field not from the working world.  However I have the luxury of taking my time to find out what Terrell and the surrounding area has to offer.
The park is 5 miles outside of Terrell in a rural area surrounded by ranch land.  Terrell itself appears low income and run down. However it has character and  offers enough retail to be comfortable.  Vic is driving for Texas Star Express located 25 miles from here in Rockwall Texas which is an awesome area located on Lake Ray Hubbard. I'm sure I'll be visiting Rockwall often.  Here's to my return blogging and hopefully many more to come.